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David Hardy's avatar

This is such a powerful tribute and reminder. Silence is the greatest enemy of the truth. Thank you, April, for being that voice.

April Daniels's avatar

Thanks David! You are a solid voice also. Maybe one day, if enough of us raise our voices, the "walls of Jericho" will fall. Until then, we can heal and maybe even add a few rays of light and love into this world.

Rea de Miranda's avatar

It sickens me how depraved humankind can be. Thank you for this.

I only dealt with my abuse in my thirties. Sending love and peace.

April Daniels's avatar

Oh Rea, your are so welcome. And I understand the repulsion at how depraved humankind can be (excellent description).

I try as much as possible to focus on the healing aspects for as Nietzsche famously said, "He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss also gazes into you."

More importantly, yes to dealing with your abuse, that's when I did also. My therapist at time time told me, "You dealt with it, when you were safe enough and your psyche could handle it." I understand that now, but sheesh, while I was in the throes of the crises stage, I wasn't sure I was strong enough.

Now, I know if I can do it--anyone can.

Thank again, for commenting and healing.